Darling, it’s that time of the year again.
We’ve turned the page on another year and feel the quiet discomfort of the uncertainty of what is to come.
Will you go forward inviting more of the same?
What new relationships and experiences will emerge in the unknown of your future?
How can you stack the deck in your favor as you enter the New Year, so you can send out the kind of awesome juju and energy vibes that will allow you to attract what you want?
Yes love, it doesn’t happen on its own.
It takes much more than a prayer and a bunch of wishful thinking…it comes down to what you are prepared to do. How much responsibility are you willing to take for your own life?
“A strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen.”
When was the last time you felt the pull of desire…the excruciating, heart racing, omg I must have it and will do anything to get it kind of wanting?
What about the weak in the knees, I can’t believe I’m finally going to do this, what took me so long to take action kind of wanting?
Now that’s the kind of desire I’m talking about.
Desire is wanting more—wanting more of everything that makes you feel good.
More passion. Sex. Joy. Mystery. Adventure. Spontaneity. Eroticism. Purpose. Impact. Fun. Silliness.
It’s what fuels innovation, creativity, abundance and the feeling of being alive. Without it most of us lose sight of who we are and what we always imagined we could do, be and have.
However, somewhere along the way women have convinced themselves that they are too old, too out of touch or too “mature” to want more. That as wives, partners, mothers and professionals we would be too irresponsible, inappropriate or immature to welcome desire in our lives and love.
Nothing could be farther than the truth. In our attempt to please those around us, to be all things to all people and to make sure that we don’t upset the balance we have artificially created in our own lives, we have forgotten to honor, embrace and give life to what we really want.
It’s time to dust off you desire, love.
It’s time to unleash your desire for all things delicious, soulful, exquisite and satiating. To fill your home, your life, your work, your love, your body and your soul with things, experiences, relationships and thoughts that make you feel as spectacular as you are.
If you’ve forgotten what makes you feel magnificent or exactly how to get that feeling back, remember that desire is always alive within you, even it if has been dormant for far too long.
Give desire a place to grow.
Allow yourself to indulge in wanting more.
Your soul craves it. Your heart is calling for it. Your body aches for it.